Hi, I'm Scrabble Hamster. :)

[rickymooston]

Oh, it was definitely not to impress anyone, it's just that I like my hair to be healthy and it wasn't. More than trying to impress myself, it was that my hair was irritating me as it was.

On a related note, I can't say I really understand girls (or women) who keep their hair long to impress guys. Most of the time, it ends up looking damaged and stringy, and would really be much nicer if they cut it and regrew it.

I used to tease me ex. Your hair looks great now; I guess that means you are going to cut it.

The worthiness of men to being impressed not withstanding, long hair drives 80% of straight guys crazy. I'll admit softness, silkiness, smoothiness or other stuff works too.

I'd say, 10% of girls look even hotter with short hair. My pen pal looks pretty cute with short hair but she looks way better with long hair.

(Note: lack of moose pic in this post. Photographer is answering.  )

[Assyriankey]

On a related note, I can't say I really understand girls (or women) who keep their hair long to impress guys. Most of the time, it ends up looking damaged and stringy, and would really be much nicer if they cut it and regrew it.

Seka, FYI:  damaged and/or stringy hair is so far down the list of turn-offs for most guys that it's actually on page II of our operator manuals.

+1 for moving into SH's thread and making it your own :)

[Son of Man]

On a related note, I can't say I really understand girls (or women) who keep their hair long to impress guys. Most of the time, it ends up looking damaged and stringy, and would really be much nicer if they cut it and regrew it.

Seka, FYI:  damaged and/or stringy hair is so far down the list of turn-offs for most guys that it's actually on page II of our operator manuals.

+1 for moving into SH's thread and making it your own :)

I like it better this way.  And since we're talking about Seka now, it would be appropriate for Hamster to retitle this thread until Seka makes an intro thread of her own.

[Assyriankey]

On a related note, I can't say I really understand girls (or women) who keep their hair long to impress guys. Most of the time, it ends up looking damaged and stringy, and would really be much nicer if they cut it and regrew it.

Seka, FYI:  damaged and/or stringy hair is so far down the list of turn-offs for most guys that it's actually on page II of our operator manuals.

+1 for moving into SH's thread and making it your own :)

I like it better this way.  And since we're talking about Seka now, it would be appropriate for Hamster to retitle this thread until Seka makes an intro thread of her own.

Until SH comes up with a more accurate thread title we can specify the new title each time we post.  Someone should ask the moderators to remove those off-topic posts on page 1 of this thread (the OP, reply #1, etc).

I'll always remember Seka's first post on the old WWGHA forum.  It started like this:

Well, this is my first time posting here, and the only reason I was driven to post (and register) was QM's extreme ignorance on many subjects. I desperately wanted to set him straight on some accounts (probably impossible) but now I don't quite know where to start...

I wonder how she's going with that...

[Son of Man]

Assy, what a buzzkill.  Why did you have to mention QM?  This is Seka's thread.

-1

[seka]

I'll always remember Seka's first post on the old WWGHA forum.  It started like this:

Well, this is my first time posting here, and the only reason I was driven to post (and register) was QM's extreme ignorance on many subjects. I desperately wanted to set him straight on some accounts (probably impossible) but now I don't quite know where to start...

I wonder how she's going with that...

Turns out the answer is right there  :)

[rickymooston]

I'll always remember Seka's first post on the old WWGHA forum.  It started like this:

Well, this is my first time posting here, and the only reason I was driven to post (and register) was QM's extreme ignorance on many subjects. I desperately wanted to set him straight on some accounts (probably impossible) but now I don't quite know where to start...

I wonder how she's going with that...

Turns out the answer is right there  :)

https://isgodimaginary.com/forum/index.php/topic,239.0.html 

[seka]

On a related note, I can't say I really understand girls (or women) who keep their hair long to impress guys. Most of the time, it ends up looking damaged and stringy, and would really be much nicer if they cut it and regrew it.

I used to tease me ex. Your hair looks great now; I guess that means you are going to cut it.

The worthiness of men to being impressed not withstanding, long hair drives 80% of straight guys crazy. I'll admit softness, silkiness, smoothiness or other stuff works too.

I'd say, 10% of girls look even hotter with short hair. My pen pal looks pretty cute with short hair but she looks way better with long hair.

(Note: lack of moose pic in this post. Photographer is answering.  )

Seka, FYI:  damaged and/or stringy hair is so far down the list of turn-offs for most guys that it's actually on page II of our operator manuals.

Thanks for the hair advice, boys! I have heard that guys like long hair, and I guess that is once again confirmed. Again, though, it was not for a guy that I cut it (nor was it for a guy that I kept it long - as far as straight guys go, I hear that being a female is a bigger turn on factor than hair color, texture, shine, and length combined). I like my hair to be the way I like my hair to be  :)  It's actually pretty cute now, it looks all chopped up (that's basically what my aunt did... ten inches here, twelve there...) but in a nice way. BTW, this means that my shortest layer is still below my shoulders (just for reference    )

Ricky, as far as girls and hair go (and keep in mind that this is personal general advice - there are certainly girls who are different), if she is complaining you probably want to empathize without giving advice. Go with what she is saying. Don't insist that it looks great and that you want her to keep it long (she'll just feel that you don't pay attention) but don't say that she is right and should cut it, either (that's more of what she expects from her girl friends, and would probably be offended if you said it). Something like "It sounds like you've been really frustrated with your hair lately. You know I love your long hair, but I bet that it would look really great if you cut it the way that you want to" (only in your words, of course, and not so... awkward... sounding) might be appropriate. When she is in a good mood and not complaining is the time that you want to praise her hair. However, you probably don't want to mention cutting it at this time either. Instead of "I love your long hair, and I hope you never cut it," it might be better to say "Wow, I love the way your hair catches the light when you let it down like that... you look gorgeous!" Send the message that you adore her long hair without putting on any pressure or making your love seem conditional. While this won't stop her from cutting her hair if she is really set on it, it will definitely influence her decision and might even make her not so set on it anymore.

Occasional teasing is okay  :)

[rickymooston]

Thanks for the hair advice, boys! I have heard that guys like long hair, and I guess that is once again confirmed. Again, though, it was not for a guy that I cut it (nor was it for a guy that I kept it long - as far as straight guys go, I hear that being a female is a bigger turn on factor than hair color, texture, shine, and length combined).

  Lol. Don't worry about having to compete with scotty or jesus for the straight man vote.

Also note: I said 10% of girls like EXTREMELY extra hot with short hair. At risk of being smited by ex-mormons, I have to reserve judgement on whether you are in this rare group via photo comparison.

My ex-gf most definately looked more hot with longer hair and this cute baseball hat thing but my penpal looks pretty cute with short hair. (In my eyes at the time, if my ex original had a perceived hotness factor of say 900, hair reduction might have changed that to about say 800. Other girls hotness factors at the time were not higher than say 400.)

I like my hair to be the way I like my hair to be  :)  It's actually pretty cute now, it looks all chopped up (that's basically what my aunt did... ten inches here, twelve there...) but in a nice way. BTW, this means that my shortest layer is still below my shoulders (just for reference    )

  You might be one of the 10%. ;), But, if somebody really really is nuts about you, he's gonna still be

Ricky, as far as girls and hair go (and keep in mind that this is personal general advice - there are certainly girls who are different), if she is complaining you probably want to empathize without giving advice. Go with what she is saying. Don't insist that it looks great and that you want her to keep it long (she'll just feel that you don't pay attention) but don't say that she is right and should cut it, either (that's more of what she expects from her girl friends, and would probably be offended if you said it). Something like "It sounds like you've been really frustrated with your hair lately. You know I love your long hair, but I bet that it would look really great if you cut it the way that you want to"

The problem is that has no flirting potential!!!

Dam, I guess your gonna cut your hair now might get her "angry" and that plays into the flirting thing.

(only in your words, of course, and not so... awkward... sounding) might be appropriate.

Hehehe, I like you see the lack of flirting potential.

When she is in a good mood and not complaining is the time that you want to praise her hair. However, you probably don't want to mention cutting it at this time either.
Instead of "I love your long hair, and I hope you never cut it," it might be better to say "Wow, I love the way your hair catches the light when you let it down like that... you look gorgeous!"

   Naturally this is what happened the first time. Soon after she cut said hair. So the next time, I had to tease her about it.

Send the message that you adore her long hair without putting on any pressure or making your love seem conditional. While this won't stop her from cutting her hair if she is really set on it, it will definitely influence her decision and might even make her not so set on it anymore.

   Hmmm. There are diffinately times were its best to be quiet.  

Occasional teasing is okay  :)

Hehehe. ;-). 

[Son of Man]

The very day my mom got her hair cut short, she was hit on by a lesbian.  It's a bit longer now.  : )

Some women look pretty damn good with short hair.  Dkit's newer pictures with short hair look better than her older pictures with longer hair, and Laura looks great either way.

But for the other women, -1 if you cut it.  : )

I like what Seka said about being polite and making the woman feel good.  If a woman gets her hair cut short, and I don't say something like, "Oh, no, what happened!?!?!?", I'll generally just ignore it and not say anything, at all.  Unless they ask.  

And if I even care what the woman's hair looks like, then she's probably really pretty, anyway, so she'll still look good even with a bad hair do.  That's always reassuring to hear.

[rickymooston]

The very day my mom got her hair cut short, she was hit on by a lesbian.  It's a bit longer now.  : )

   Lesbians that I know like angelina jolie, who is most definately in the long hair 90%.

Some women look pretty damn good with short hair.  Dkit's newer pictures with short hair look better than her older pictures with longer hair, and Laura looks great either way.

Gonna miss you man. (Suspect you may be in trouble in near future. Not sure why.)

But for the other women, -1 if you cut it.  : )

   

I like what Seka said about being polite and making the woman feel good.  If a woman gets her hair cut short, and I don't say something like, "Oh, no, what happened!?!?!?", I'll generally just ignore it and not say anything, at all.  Unless they ask. 

   Depends where you stand with said woman and her emotional mood. (See teasing/flirting.) 

And if I even care what the woman's hair looks like, then she's probably really pretty, anyway, so she'll still look good even with a bad hair do.  That's always reassuring to hear.

[Assyriankey]

as far as straight guys go, I hear that being a female is a bigger turn on factor than hair color, texture, shine, and length combined

I think you're probably right but even a Ferrari looks better red.  A little bit of optimising never hurt anyone.

[rickymooston]

as far as straight guys go, I hear that being a female is a bigger turn on factor than hair color, texture, shine, and length combined

I think you're probably right but even a Ferrari looks better red.  A little bit of optimising never hurt anyone.

+1

I plead innocent and blame SoM for the topic take over. 

Um Scrabble Hamster ...

Whatever happen to that creepy attention you were getting? Did he blow away? Turned innocent? Restaining orders involved? What is your accountant look? I mean, ... I assume the first the pic nic sunday look?

In terms of the er, hair thing, do you have a long hair/short hair comparison pic?  Seems your hair is always shoulder length?

I can er, objectively say, I think shoulder length definately works on you, lol, as can all guys not SoM.

P.S. I loved your description of forum myspace blurb. Awesome.

[seka]

I like what Seka said about being polite and making the woman feel good.  If a woman gets her hair cut short, and I don't say something like, "Oh, no, what happened!?!?!?", I'll generally just ignore it and not say anything, at all.  Unless they ask. 

And if I even care what the woman's hair looks like, then she's probably really pretty, anyway, so she'll still look good even with a bad hair do.  That's always reassuring to hear.

It is good advice, and you are wise to have read it. Really, it's all about being positive and giving praise to achieve desired results.

And you're exactly right. A pretty woman will still be pretty with ugly hair. In fact, she might even make it look good.

[seka]

as far as straight guys go, I hear that being a female is a bigger turn on factor than hair color, texture, shine, and length combined

I think you're probably right but even a Ferrari looks better red.  A little bit of optimising never hurt anyone.

Hey, I'm not the person I've heard this from. But about that list, what else is on the manual?

[Son of Man]

as far as straight guys go, I hear that being a female is a bigger turn on factor than hair color, texture, shine, and length combined

I think you're probably right but even a Ferrari looks better red.  A little bit of optimising never hurt anyone.

Assy, she doesn't need any red in her hair.  -1

[Son of Man]

Hey, I'm not the person I've heard this from. But about that list, what else is on the manual?

Seka, don't take any beauty advice from Assy.  He wanted this forum to be purple, brown, orange, black, blue, yellow, red and lime green at the same time.  He also has some really weird ideas about what makes a good looking woman.   

[rickymooston]

Assy, what a buzzkill.  Why did you have to mention QM?  This is Seka's thread.

-1

Seka likes razzing QM. The moose thinks religious guys intrigue her.

Don't worry tho, you can convert to Ricky's mumbo jumbo religion while maintaining your atheism for the most part ... That is, if you want to project the same aura of mystique that Jesus and QM exhibit with atheist chicks.

[Happy Evolute]

My turn ...

[Son of Man]

My turn ...

HE, this is Seka's thread. 

[seka]

My turn ...

I'm sorry, but you don't get a turn in here. Go find someone else's intro to take over.

Hey, I'm not the person I've heard this from. But about that list, what else is on the manual?

Seka, don't take any beauty advice from Assy.  He wanted this forum to be purple, brown, orange, black, blue, yellow, red and lime green at the same time.  He also has some really weird ideas about what makes a good looking woman.   

What, am I now to learn that each guy has his own manual? This is too confusing...

[Son of Man]

What, am I now to learn that each guy has his own manual? This is too confusing...

Assy just has a thing for midgets but won't admit it.  He once showed me a drawing of what was supposed to be beautiful women.  Only she had short stumpy legs and a freakishly long torso.  If her arms were any shorter, she'd have been a midget.  After an hour or so of laughing, I told him what needed to be done to fix it, and he tried several times.  Finally, after going so far as to cut a strip out of the picture to reduce the height of her torso, he finally gave up.  If Assy ever compares you unfavorably to another woman, take it as a compliment. 

[Son of Man]

You all know that I'm that last person who would ever want to cause any trouble, but I noticed that two people are tied for the most posts in their intro threads, Vynn and Scrabble Hamster.  I just thought I'd point that out.  I'm going to walk away now.  : )

[rickymooston]

You all know that I'm that last person who would ever want to cause any trouble, but I noticed that two people are tied for the most posts in their intro threads, Vynn and Scrabble Hamster.  I just thought I'd point that out.  I'm going to walk away now.  : )

Errrr, you scared away Scrabble hamster tho.

[seka]

You all know that I'm that last person who would ever want to cause any trouble, but I noticed that two people are tied for the most posts in their intro threads, Vynn and Scrabble Hamster.  I just thought I'd point that out.  I'm going to walk away now.  : )

Yes, this is always to be expected after I take over an intro thread, as I have these two. Of course, neither of these is a rival to my original intro thread on WWGHA. Ah, that was a grand thread indeed...

[Son of Man]

You all know that I'm that last person who would ever want to cause any trouble, but I noticed that two people are tied for the most posts in their intro threads, Vynn and Scrabble Hamster.  I just thought I'd point that out.  I'm going to walk away now.  : )

Errrr, you scared away Scrabble hamster tho.

Let's hope so.  : )

[Assyriankey]